Conversation Partner

A S-P-E-C-I-A-L Conversation Partner?!

Sensitive
Realize that these men and women were smart in their native language. Be sensitive to their feelings of embarrassment, inadequacy, etc. Watch for nonverbal clues of frustration, and be ready to encourage and reassure.

Patient
Don't be afraid to repeat things often. Have realistic expectations of what your friend can do.

Enthusiastic
Give them genuine and frequent encouragement; however, don't tell them everything is "great" or "wonderful" if it isn't - be selective in your praise. Don't be afraid to correct mistakes. Most students want and expect this.

Creative
Use your imagination. Your sense of humor can be one of your greatest assets. Think of ways to make tasks into games.

Informed
Find out about your friend's background and culture. Use resources which will help you become a better Conversation Partner.

Adaptable
Be willing to put aside some cultural expectations of the way things "should" be. Be willing to change your agenda, pace, etc. to meet your friend's particular week-to-week needs.

Loving
Pray for your friend's progress. Look for ways to serve him or her outside of your weekly meetings.